Can a involuntary abortion do that?

I think I get what you are saying...You had an affair with a woman, then she went home to her parents , they pressured her and her ex husband pressured her, and somewhere in there, there may have been a pregnancy? or a loss of a pregnancy? either way she freaked out, and went back to her husband and is cutting off all contact with you...at this point you just have to step back and wait for her to let you know what is going on...I know it will be hard, but she equally has allot even more going on and she has hormones and possibly a loss of a baby, to deal with.... try to give her space, and if she can she will contact you, if you can just give her so breathing room ...can you imagine, having the parents, you, the husband, the loss of a baby, a pregnancy, and a new relationship to deal with?