Online Dating -- Complications?

I'd wait to see if he contacts YOU again. If he knows you'll chase him, he'll make you do it. If he wants to play games, let him do it with someone else. I'd keep my distance. He doesn't appreciate you and you can do much better. I've been with my boyfriend I met on a forum too for almost 4 years so I understand how you can fall for someone online. It's worked out for me but for many it doesn't work out. It's also difficult at times. I hope you can find someone worth your time and attention. Noah sounds a bit wishy-washy. You need to make him understand that the backhanded compliments aren't scoring any points with you. Let him come to you next time.