Gosselin family? How do you feel about them?

Ok I have read so many google articles about how Kate is a such a bad mom. people are attacking her for her choices. ie: The television program. They are attacking her for her choice to work now. Would they rather another welfare bum like octomom? Jon ******** about staying at home with the kids. the way I see it. If you can contribute to their "being" you can contribute to their upbringing. Everyone puts Kate out there as the bad parent. Have you seen how short tempered Jon can get? He is reacting to the public eye negatively. He should have thought about all the publicity and "celebrity status" they were bound to receive before filming the first season. I am not siding with either. but i do think it wrong of tabloids to attack Kate for her parenting decisions. Since when does writing a couple books and doing book tours make someone a bad mom? You see the love she has for her children. Also as for the cheating allegations against Jon, pictures are worth a thousand words. Just being a boy and denying. You are a father! time to act like a man. Also ppl are attacking Kate for her spa visits. Hell with 8 kids she needs it. She stayed at home for what, the first 3 years with the kids? She deserves time away. just as Jon does, however from what I've seen with the show Jon seems to take off when things start getting tough. that's when he decides to go away for a little while. I feel kind of sorry for him too though. he was only 22 when he got married. The twins born when he was 23. he didn't get to have his 20's. early 20's. he seems like he regrets it now. you can see it in his face. Yes, he loves his children but I think he regrets not the bad decisions he has made but some other ones. what do you think of all this?